5. If you love your husband/wife, you will make it your mission to relate better with his/her people. Let the relationship grow over time.
6. Your in-laws might have a negative attitude towards you, because you can't be who they expected. You cannot be the best person for their son/daughter. Make peace with that, and they will soon come around. Prove them wrong by just being yourself. Stay neutral and balance in the whole time
7. Give them what you have, do not hold it back ? But do not be a door mat
8. Understand that most paternal grandparents feel 'unprivileged' when it comes to involvement with their grandchildren Don't contribute to this feeling; let the children visit them, don't deny your kids a relationship with their grandparents because of your misunderstandings.
9. Strive for a healthy relationship with your in-laws. I wish you a happy and balance in all relationships in life
10. Set the table for a balance a loving time each time you meet the in-laws
11. Release all negative feeling toward your in laws and see what haapens in the long run.
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